Tuesday, September 22, 2009

Little Ballerina

Marielle has been begging me to sign her up for two things: (1) dance and (2) soccer. Check, and check. I signed Marielle up for ballet a couple of weeks ago and she started soccer this weekend (post to come). Since the recital is still several weeks away, I thought I'd focus on more juicy petty, less dance-related aspects of her class in the near term.  A few weeks ago at Marielle’s second day of ballet lessons, I received a “Note from the Teacher.” It sited two infractions. 



Infraction 1: This one represents the bulk of the Teacher's note, and we'll call it the “Friendly Dress Code Reminder.” Apparently, I only bought pink ballet shoes and not all leather, pink ballet shoes. Ok, so if I had carefully read the instructions I would have seen that the ballet shoes had to be all leather. I guess I figured at age four they didn’t need the regulation ballet shoes, so I just bought the ones at Target for like $6. Wrong. So last week I made a yet another trip to the ballet store and bought pink regulation ballet shoes. They are all leather.  Yes, the ballet class I signed Marielle up for is strict on the attire. Per the Dress Code all ballerinas must wear: (1) a pink or black leotard, no sparkles or decoration of any sort allowed; (2) pink ballet tights; (3) hair back in a bun without loose hair strands (preschool ballet is allowed a ponytail thank goodness); and (4) pink ballet shoes.  But hey, who's counting.  They're four after all.  So...

Infraction 2: Not teaching Marielle to point her toes before ballet class? OK, so along with the dress code reminder was a little note that said “Marielle can’t really point her toes, smiley face.” Excuse me. This is day two of preschool ballet and you’re pointing out that Marielle can’t point her toes. Am I supposed to teach her that at home? Is there a pre-preschool ballet class that we missed? I sort of thought that pointing your toes was the kind of thing that you learn in ballet class, but I guess not.

On a separate note, buying a black leotard also proved to be a mistake. In the video that the ballet school posted online, the majority of the girls were wearing black leotards, so, wanting Marielle to fit in, I bought a black leotard. After her first class Marielle quickly informed me that “all of the other girls” were wearing pink (not black) leotards. I actually giggled a little bit to myself after she requested a pink leotard. Regardless of what the other kids were wearing Marielle would of course want pink. So, we went to the ballet store and bought a pink leotard before class. Actually, Marc went out and bought it. He was very frazzled and overwhelmed by how many different pink leotards he had to choose from, but after following the dress code rules (see above) and his better judgment, he managed just fine.  If I had known what was to come, I would've had him look over all the rules and maybe he would've caught our shoe faux pas.

So again, I know that I intentionally signed Marielle up for what I consider a real ballet studio. I wanted the rules and the structure, so I'm just going to shut my mouth and roll with it (after venting in this post). After all, Marielle seems to be having fun and has already started doing some graceful moves around the house. Her sister starts ballet this week and I can’t wait to see the two girls “practice” their moves together. Anyway, Harper’s ballet post will be soon to come.

Saturday, September 12, 2009

East Meets West

A few weeks ago our great friends from Japan, the Drews, visited. Unfortunately Marc was out of town, but that didn't stop us from having a great time. Marc's really not that much fun anyway ;)


Our friendship with the Drews is one of those that just picks up where it left off. There is no adjustment time needed, we sort of just jump in like no time has passed, when really it's been years since we've seen each other. They're ahead in the count since they've been out to see us more times than we've visited them in Japan. We did go and see them in Virginia, but I don't think that counts for much once you start measuring trips in terms of international travel.

We didn't have anything too ambitious on the agenda during their visit. Catching up and hanging out was key. We did go to eat at some restaurants (Snooze, Heaven Star, The Med), took a walk to and played at the park/playground, splashed in the blow up pool (at least the kids did), and went shopping (my favorite activity). Really there was a lot of hanging out and watching our kids play like they were old friends. In short, we had a great time (there was even some impromptu hand-holding), and we are hoping that two years won't pass before we see them again.